OMAHA, Neb. – The New York Times bestseller “You’ll Never Believe What Happened to Lacey: Crazy Stories about Racism” is full of stories Emmy-nominated comedy writer Amber Ruffin and her sister Lacey Lamar experienced while they were there grew up in Omaha. Her anecdotes are funny and, for some, also educational.
“I walk down the aisle and my head jerks back so far that I fall to the floor. It’s an older Caucasian woman, she says, ‘I’ve never seen anything so fluffy, it’s so fluffy.’ She was caught in my hair. I had to teach her a lesson that we don’t do that, that’s not a thing, “Lamar said.
On Friday, people waited in line at STATUS, a luxury handbag shop in the village of Aksarben, to meet the authors and receive signed copies of the book.
“We just look at the bright side of things and we laugh and laugh. And you have to admit, the stories are funny. Some not so much, but we can find the humor in everything,” Lamar said. “Telling the stories tears down the wall when you talk to people who may not even believe that racism exists.”
Not only do they make people have a good laugh, but they also feel like they are making a difference by opening up conversations about racism.
Lamar added, “Instead of ‘Hey, I have this racist story’ where they’re going to put up a wall right away – if you say ‘Hey, listen to what happened to me today’ and you start telling the story, you can letting them know that there is still racism because a lot of people out there – before they even read this book – contacted me and said, ‘I didn’t even know this happened.’ When you add humor to things it gets a little easier. “
Ruffin said the book was great fun writing and easy to tell embarrassing stories about her sister.
“It’s very funny when it happens to your sister … okay, I’m just kidding, really not, but a little okay,” she said.
A couple of stories in the book stand out, said Ruffin.
“She paid something with her black history checks and the cashier said, ‘I didn’t know you could get your picture on your checks.’ It was a picture of former activist Harriet Tubman, “she said.
While they say they love being able to laugh at their experiences, when they can make change, it’s an even bigger reward.
“A lot of people who say racist things don’t even know what they’re doing or saying. Maybe this book will help some people, ”added Ruffin.
“People learn from it. The best gift ever is when someone says, ‘I’ll read your book and oh my god I do.’ They say, ‘I won’t do this anymore, I’ll take care of myself when I’m with people of color at work and I’ll change,’ “Lamar said.
Their stories are about what they call “modern racism”.
“White people read this book and say, ‘Oh, I didn’t know I shouldn’t, thank you for dragging me into 2021,'” Ruffin said.
They say the book is written for everyone and that you should just feel how you like it.
“I can’t imagine you’d have a really sad life if you couldn’t laugh about it a lot,” said Ruffin.
Ruffin and Lamar said there were a lot more stories to tell and a second book was in the works.
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